I sent MIL flowers

[25yearsmlc]

VC and Bond both have points...

(VC how dare you!! --we have to start a thread of our own I guess )

But yes Rysmom, I say it's mentally ill (of your h) to buy ANYONE a Rolls Royce IF what you say about him being close to bankruptcy is true.

I mean, it's just over the top weird to do that.

Cars don't appreciate in value, they depreciate. It's not "an investment"

so how can a guy spending like a drunken sailor -by your previous description about how "addicted" he is with spending--buy a rolls royce? Yes I stand by my claim that it's mentally ill and I find it laughable, but also sad).

And as glad as I am that he is PRESENTLY paid up, I think Bond's point and VC's is that you can at least write up something to say when/how much so you can RELY on that.

If the only way is a court order pursuant to filing for a divorce, then either do it for real

or

file an order for interim support for a pending divorce, and hold off on finalizing it. But get something enforceable!

As usual, I defer to your L's advice on how best to protect yourself.

But simply pretending "all is well now" b/c he's up to date, as of this day, is living in denial and NOT protecting yourself.