Lupita,

I personally think and feel that the best way to piece is when the LBS (you) is the one that doesn't feel they want to be married.

I think and feel that it is a part of the healing process.

In my case, I told her that the majority of the burden of proof was on her now. Now she wanted to be married, prove it.

Just keep your heart open to him, but just a little, not so much that you get stupid.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet