"why am I emotionally supporting her if she just wants to leave me in the dust."
Why, indeed?
To me, emotionally supporting her means you are still building your life around her and not you. You're filling her tank at the expense of your own.
We have to let our WAS's deal with their own decisions. As long as your W thinks you are going to be a lifeboat for her she will not do the hard work she needs to do on herself. You can't do that work for her; only she can.
Let go some more, AC. You have to cut the cord at some point or you are going to make yourself nuts trying to fix something you cannot fix.
You know where I'm coming from on this, don't you?
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
