Telemark, if you give it a little more time, you will know you did absolutely everything possible to save the M. 5 years down the road, you will be able to tell yourself the same thing. I don't think it's going to take much time, either, as your situation is moving very quickly right now. Her pride is going to make her play the victim role for the time being. (even you and I and almost anybody on this board is going to say, "well, duh") I don't blame you at all for considering the OM situation with a high degree of skepticism, and I think that you should. However, be sure to take all the time you can to continue to work on yourself - I have this feeling that time is going to become scarce.
