time and distance

[any chance?]

There are no D papers filed, our finances are joint, she is not working, on my health care, but, most important, IMO, I have been emotionally supportive during the entire process. That last part is why her lack of communication is so hard to take....why am I emotionally supporting her if she just wants to leave me in the dust.

A hugely complicating factor is the clinical depression issue. How to separate her depression from any rational decisions she may be making is virtually impossible. What to believe? What to hold on to?