yes cam (and Rick) they say the pain goes away and that GAL helps a lot. I'm feeling really low a lot of the time, so I keep doing the Michelle Weiner Davis thought stopping BIG RED STOP SIGN all day lately. It's helped some in blocking harmful and negative thoughts.

Cam, I feel for you. I can tell that your pain is great when I read your posts. But as I've been told: this program works if you work it. Either your marriage will be saved eventually OR YOU WILL. Don't give up, man. We're here for you.

Don't call. Don't email. Dark. Dark. Dark. Work on CAM.

Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed