Tank, its so good to hear from you. I know that many of us have been thinking about you. I hope the recovery from the pneumonia is on track.
As always, your wife sank to the occasion. I am glad that no contact seems to be helping you regain some balance during this impossible time. Calmness is good. Very good.
No right-minded woman does what your W is doing. I know it doesn't help to hear that, but its the only explanation out there for such outrageous behavior.
Not that its your problem, but is she still drinking/smoking pot heavily? Is she sober during her visitations?
Stay clam, keep moving forward, keep taking back control over your life, and YOUR wellness comes first at this point. Your kids need one sane/healthy parent.
How did your kids handle your hospitalization?
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011
