If she were to ask me tomorrow to forgive her and let her come back, I don't think I could do that.
Nor could I in my sitch. Sure as God made little green apples her sitch will crash down around her and she will look for a rescuer. If that is what she wants and she turns to you….
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I want her to take care of herself, and get the help she obviously needs. With or without me, she deserves to get her head and her heart right. I could hear some desperation in her voice today, and I am concerned about her mental and emotional health.
I do not read this as you being done, nor do I see you white knighting this. I read this as your compassion, your wishing to help. So how can you help without rushing in and trying to fix. I ask b/c my knee jerk is to fix, and on the outside looking in it seems my knee jerk would only stopgap and not truly fix.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
