This is the one thing to keep in mind: ALMOST ALL Rs don't work out, that's why we date :-)
Given that, keep your eyes open, what works for you? what doesn't?
OK, fine, I married the first guy I really dated after D. But, ALMOST ALL dating Rs don't work out. And, I think having that in mind let me be detached enough for real intimacy to grow.
When you grok while real intimacy requires detachment, you will be a tremendous guy.
