Hi, DC, what did you enjoy doing for fun before you met W? Is there anything you did as a child or wanted to do that you would want your kids to experience? There are many ways that a spouse can see us as new and exciting rather than the same boring (to them) H or W. Go shop for some cool new jeans and shirts. It's almost Fall, so we all need some fresh new style for the season.
It will eventually get old with your W that om can only come in once in a while.