Hang in there. I remember when my H first broke off contact with OW, which was 4 months after bomb drop, I had the feeling that it was way too early in the sitch, and that he was far from ready for that. He went into terrible withdrawal, and the next 4 months were the most horrible in our sitch. The coaster ride was wild, especially since it was the holidays.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go