You're focussing too much on the goal rather than the steps to get to that goal.
For example, when you pick up the kids, you can casually say, "that outfit looks great on you". And then just stroll away. Think of them as small mini bombs rather than a nuke.
No excitement? Start changing your attitude, your dress, etc. Start doing something different even if it's with your kids. Say for example you take them somewhere you've never been with your W that is not typically what you would do. Then when the kids go back to your W, they'll tell her what you did and she'll start to wonder. See?
Alot of what I just saw in your previous post was self-defeating. Time to get off your @$$ and show you're different rather than saying you are.
That's why DB is made up of baby steps. Remember it's a marathon not a sprint.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
