Tele:
You are a kind and generous man. Many on these boards have predicted that your W's arrangement would deteriorate, but it is amazing how quickly it has gone south. She has made the mess and now she has to figure out how to fix it. I think you are a good man to give her the time and space to do so.

As we have said a hundred times: time and patience. Hang in there and be strong.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012