Wife Says I fill her with hate when she sees me

[MrBond]

That's not what I meant. What do you want that's within your control? What have you been doing that's within your control? You obviously can't force her to leave you the kids. What's realistic?

And if you believe your family was truly happy, you wouldn't be here. What have you done to fix that without making the A an obsession? It's hard, I know, but you've got to start thinking objectively.