Rysmom I agree with vc. At the very least you need to talk to your H about finances. You don't need to condemn him and his actions, just discuss your concerns. Right now that seems to be the biggest worry for you.
If he refuses to acknowledge it, then you take the steps to protect yourself. It could be legal, it could be getting another job. Anything is better than nothing and living with the fear that you will be thrown into the street while your H can wave at you from his Bentley.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
