MTS, focus on your GAL'ing activities. You are doing a good job of mixing it up. How did you feel about your situation on Friday night? In my experience, when I've done something like that, my situation seems very, very small. I also realize what I'm doing with my life and when I think about what my W is pursuing (the D, and that is NOT really detaching BTW) and it makes realize I am heading in a different direction with my life right now than my W is.