Goals for self: 1. Stay Married. a. Don't file for a divorce. b. Don't talk about R or OM. c. GAL
2. Regain financial stability. a. Make monthly payments to creditors. b. Use coupons like there is no tomorrow. c. Search for deals at grocery stores. d. Buy Generic food.
3. Regain emotional stability. a. Detach. b. Have 1 fun night a week. c. Reconnect wih old friends.
4. Be a better father. a. Read 2 books to D everyday that I have her. b. Take D to church every Sunday. c. Do something fun outside of the house at least once a week. d. Interact with D at least 80% of the time I am with her.
5. Be a better friend. a. Maintain eye contact. b. Actively listen and reflect. c. Empathize. d. Validate feelings. e. Be less defensive.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12