b/c the WAS turns around to return or at least seriously probes,
but oops, we LBSers got dealt a lousy hand awhile back. So we played our lousy hand as best we could,
and sometimes we GAL, and managed to find some balance and it's really hard to give that up so we can go back to crazy land.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ That right there is where I am and it is not a fun place to be. It is a struggle. I can't give you ANY advice becuase I am not handling my sitch well at all. 25 has some great advice that I am trying to follow as well. keep detaching cause they are not done.
Good luck, stay centered, don't let her stress you out. I will keep watching your thread as you are getting really great advice that I will use as well.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
