Treading water - time and patience

[NYCPeter]

Thanks for sharing your experience.

My W only works Fri / Sat nights so me looking after the girls is not an issue from that respect with the exception that it limits one of my GAL activities (play more golf).

I agree the moving into the spare room is passive aggresive and I am trying to remove that aspect of my personality and like you there are no signs of an affair despite my earlier thinking so.

To be honest if it wasn't for the late nights and the lack of ML I would say our R is as strong as it's been for a long while and the progress over the last month or so has been pretty remarkable.