Well my weekend went pretty well. On Friday night some church members and I played games at a shelter with some of the people there. It was really refreshing to me and lifted my spirits. It was actually raining that night so just thinking about the fact that if they weren't in that shelter, they'd be out in the rain really touched my heart. Many of them had so much joy while we were playing the games it was refreshing to see.
That night I slept like a baby. 9 hours straight. I didn't have to take any medicine or anything. It was the first time I'd slept that long in a long, long time.
Saturday I got up and did a few things around my apt. I tried to straighten up some. I met up with a friend at a sports bar for an alumni watch party on Saturday afternoon. My grandfather came into town as well so when I got back to my apt he was there waiting on me. It was great getting to spend time with him and just getting to be in his presence.
Saturday night we watched football and since I'd ordered the Mayweather fight, I had some friends over. My best friend and his son (my W and I are the godparents), two married couples (one of which I stayed with during the early stages of this ordeal, the other helped me moved my things out of the house), my grandfather and I all watched the fight and sat and talked. It was a good night. I had moments here and there where I thought about my W but I never really got down...initially.
mid 20s Tgther 7 yrs W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11 W filed 05/11/11 I moved out 08/05/11 Mediation mid Oct 11 D final Dec 11 Now what? ...2012