Also, re your threat that her PA will cost the kids $200K... I don't think that will have your intended effect. In her mind it is you causing her to have a PA in the first place, so ultimately she'll still think it's your fault. Her thinking is twisted right now.

Do you really want her to come back to you because you told her if she doesn't it'll cost the kids money? I would not respond well to a threat.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.