Are there any midlife women who want daily sex?

[TeaEarlGreyHot]

tea, captain, ssm

Tea I'm interested in knowing if your w has had ANY interest increase since the big accusation?


Apparently there's a thread of jealousy in her. Interesting. Have you flat out told her that she has rejected you

for years and that for every night that you went without sex as a couple,

was a missed opportunity...a chance for her to show you that you are desired as a man.

And each time that didn't happen, you were hurt. Men are allowed feelings too.


It's not a "Complaint"; it's a statement of fact. Why doesn't that matter?

And Tea, as much as I do NOT approve of affairs,

isn't there a part of her that knows she's pushing you into the arms of OW?

OR at least fears it? Sheesh...

While not all women may be like this my personal experience, as I related to my wife, is that the women I come to care about in long-term relationships apparently enter them so that they can be whole they are as non-sexual creatures. And there must be enough of these sexual issues to have it be part of the conversation.

Yet, thank-you for taking a look and trying to to be helpful.

Now, to your question:

In a word: No.

I've seen no difference. And yes, I flat out told her that she rejected me and that the cost of that is a much diminished relationship...one where I cannot and do not share my most intimate self.

This is more a friendship and a housemate arrangement without any of the "friends with benefits" trappings.

I'd love to spend more time on this but I have to go this morning and make a presentation to a group. Maybe later.

The Captain