We've posted/discussed that a lot. Whereby the LBSer starts to feel like the WASer
b/c the WAS turns around to return or at least seriously probes,
but oops, we LBSers got dealt a lousy hand awhile back. So we played our lousy hand as best we could,
and sometimes we GAL, and managed to find some balance and it's really hard to give that up so we can go back to crazy land.
Be very careful...how? By detaching STILL and MORE...yes I mean it....b/c
The more you detach the more you force her to find her focus/direction.
IF there's a chance for her to come out of the fog it will NOT be with YOU "guiding" her out of the fog. This is HER Journey and it's a solo one. Keep detaching...if you change course now and go back to pursuing, you could blow it for good.
Please stop telling her you miss her and what you had and all that stuff. You have said PLENTY... OMG
LET HER do some thinking and LET HER DO THE TALKING
and LET HER take some emotional risks.
Detach Tad, it's the one thing that MAYBE is helping your sitch.
Don't do what does NOT work....(=pursuit)
Please don't backslide now.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
