She came home tonight and we had a positive talk. I am using the Last Resort technique right now. She said she'd be right back and was going to go upstairs and get changed and then grab something - she implied that she wanted to talk more. So I took the opportunity to say I had something else to do (normally I would wait like a puppy) and I left the room.

Then I just noticed on our phone that right after I bailed on her, she called her EA OM for 17 minutes. Hard to say but maybe she took me leaving as a sign that I am still ignoring her and therefore went to him for comfort. Thoughts?