hey, I'm Just sayin' I thought Bond had a great point. We are here b/c it seems rysmom is stuck big time. And you know vc, I hear what you are saying about not wanting to file and all. But she says she's seen >1 L, and they all said the same...so, what choice does she really have?
Besides, if her h is half as affected by HER choices, and it's not about the money,
then it might be just the thing to tip him over towards her. No, I don't think you should do it for THAT reason, rysmom, but it is a possible outcome.
Doing nothing hasn't helped and has cost you a ton of time and money.
I wish I'd protected our assets sooner as we are behind now, where we should be. But I can't dwell there, I did what I could with the tools I had at the time.
It's all any of us can do. Now you have more tools, so, it's up to you. vc, you know I love you (all began with your hilarious screen name, and me being an Auburn grad--see Cam today? No i didn't forget U of A...well, yeah, later we'll talk....)
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
