I'm a L and would not represent myself in my divorce hearing, that's for dang sure.
Just chiming in...and will have to give some thought to your sitch now as I have no ready answer.
Sorry
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016