I don't know what to say. I won't keep going on with the "BUT FOR ME", etc
b/c it's not helpful. Unless you or some of you are leaving out parts or not looking hard enough at your part in this
then there's not a lot to say. I DO think you need to tell her/them that you are woefully unhappy with a big chunk of your life.
Tea I'm interested in knowing if your w has had ANY interest increase since the big accusation?
Apparently there's a thread of jealousy in her. Interesting. Have you flat out told her that she has rejected you
for years and that for every night that you went without sex as a couple,
was a missed opportunity...a chance for her to show you that you are desired as a man.
And each time that didn't happen, you were hurt. Men are allowed feelings too.
It's not a "Complaint"; it's a statement of fact. Why doesn't that matter?
And Tea, as much as I do NOT approve of affairs,
isn't there a part of her that knows she's pushing you into the arms of OW?
OR at least fears it? Sheesh... And gentlemen, let me say this once;
NOT ALL WOMEN are like this. I only know 1 and it's her h's choice (she gained a lot of weight, which I assume is why).
And I'm sorry for what you are going through.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016