tea, captain, ssm

I don't know what to say. I won't keep going on with the "BUT FOR ME", etc

b/c it's not helpful. Unless you or some of you are leaving out parts or not looking hard enough at your part in this

then there's not a lot to say. I DO think you need to tell her/them that you are woefully unhappy with a big chunk of your life.

Tea I'm interested in knowing if your w has had ANY interest increase since the big accusation?


Apparently there's a thread of jealousy in her. Interesting. Have you flat out told her that she has rejected you

for years and that for every night that you went without sex as a couple,

was a missed opportunity...a chance for her to show you that you are desired as a man.

And each time that didn't happen, you were hurt. Men are allowed feelings too.


It's not a "Complaint"; it's a statement of fact. Why doesn't that matter?

And Tea, as much as I do NOT approve of affairs,

isn't there a part of her that knows she's pushing you into the arms of OW?

OR at least fears it? Sheesh...

And gentlemen, let me say this once;

NOT ALL WOMEN are like this. I only know 1 and it's her h's choice (she gained a lot of weight, which I assume is why).

And I'm sorry for what you are going through.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change