Well I know everyone hates when I do this but I enjoy it.
GAG I think your H might be in true depression stage right now.
He as you know is still in crisis. I must admit that you seem to have a lot of contact with him though out these years.
Of course he is not ready yet for a relationship with you and even when he might be sometime in the future it would take a lot more dating until you would have a real relationship.
Can I ask who normally initiates contact between the two of you?
Yes MLC takes a long time, but then again a teenager takes a long time to grow into an adult. There really is no difference between the two. You are watching him grow up before your very eyes but it is a slowwwwwwww process.
Anyways thanks for the detailed update.
Don't change anything right now, he needs to control the contact with you. Keep thinking squirrel.