Welcome to the road to being an integrated man. Like a lot of things in DB, [edited by dbmod, reference not recommended nor allowed] will seem very counterintuitive, it's not, you're just used to seeing it that way because of your preconceived notions. It's truly life changing but very hard, especially the first couple of times you put your foot down. In fact expect extra push back from your w as she tests you to see if these changes are real and permanent. Good luck and keep us posted
Alot of the changes from [edited by dbmod, reference not recommended nor allowed]count as 180's too so go ahead and share!!