Do I stay or do I go?

[aeolianchaos]

Does he really see me only as a friend?

Is this how he believes friends should treat each other?

Would he drive me if I went to see some other guy?

What do you think?

Suppose the answer is "yes." But also suppose that he was having the same subjective experience you are having. But somehow this lines up with his sense of right/wrong or integrity. How would you feel about that?

Or is he just really off in the head?

Probably not clinical or neurological (although I've often wondered if perhaps my WAW didn't need a cat scan). Coping mechanisms are powerful things and when people wrap themselves up in them.. they do some pretty wild stuff.