Thanks 25 and DG. It's so nice to have such supportive friends on here. 25, I meant to comment on another post you had somewhere else a while back regarding your son getting recognition for acting at NYU. I bet he and some of my close friends know each other. I have 2 really good friends who got into Tisch about 10 years ago. Small world.
I realized last night that when I got home I left my breast pump at the house. F me. So I told H last night. We had tentative plans for him to come over today to see D, so he said he'd bring it then. H called me this morning wanting to know my plans for the day. I only wanted to do some chores and go to the waterfall near my parent's house. He said that instead of coming over to my dad's, he suggested me coming to the house and spending the night. Said it would save me time and gas (true) and I could get my pump then. I also have plans to spend the night Monday night because we're going to MC so late in the evening. So we'll see how everything goes.
I'm in a bit of a predicament. The parents told me today there's no way that I can be in the house with D and my sister coming home. There's simply not enough room. I was wondering how this was going to be handled. They want me to put the pressure on H to move out of our house, get an apt or something, and sister and I move into our house while H continues to pay the mortgage. I don't know how the finances would go down for H to pay the mortgage AND rent, so I'm assuming I would pay his rent?? I don't know. But I'm not thrilled about having to make a decision soon.
Part of me says that he wants me to move home now. Honestly, I feel like I'm the one not ready for that. There are too many things still really out of wack. Maybe I could convince my parents to live here part time??
Damn, just when things start to seem to be going in the right direction, another bump comes along. I have a little less than a month.
