I know what you mean completely about wanting whatever's going to happen to be done. But how long has he known this woman? How much time have they really spent together (not on the Internet - in real world) and that sort of thing. I still go with the infatuation/newness and it wearing off at some point.

The question is do YOU WAIT? NO. You take care of you and then if he does come back and ask you for a chance, you are in control.


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed