So, STBX is off on a trip, visiting his OW in her state. He's giving up a day of visitation with S7 to do so, and will be giving up 2 days next week (one for a work trip, the second so he could extend the work trip and have her join him on it).
Knowing what I know about his clear personality disorder helps, but doesn't fix everything.
Hopefully things will get better.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11