So, STBX is off on a trip, visiting his OW in her state. He's giving up a day of visitation with S7 to do so, and will be giving up 2 days next week (one for a work trip, the second so he could extend the work trip and have her join him on it).

Knowing what I know about his clear personality disorder helps, but doesn't fix everything.

Hopefully things will get better.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11