...IF a woman is anatomically and physically healthy (a clitoris that is normal in size) no bladder issues, etc.
then it's pretty much a psychological issue (or inadequate stimulation).
You say she never has had one even with a device on her own in private...
That's right. I've many times brought up the idea of getting a device, but she thinks they're only for skanky porno stars.
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And after reading a bit on that topic, plus what I know of all the sisters and women I know,
she either has a physical problem that has NOT been truly explored,
or it's emotional. Not simply low libido.
Why do you keep saying that's what it is?
Just a general term. I don't know for sure what her problem is. Not even necessarily calling it a problem. The same woman without a man would not be considered having a problem. Nobody considers it a problem when a woman is living alone and not having sex. You could say she has a low desire for me in the present circumstances to be more accurate.
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You seem to be embracing a certain helplessness.
I would say it's she that's embracing helplessness. I'm not her. I can't make her do things. The alternative to "helplessness" is doing the same things over and over again and not having them work. Not much I haven't tried. In fact, the "complaint" I've gotten in this thread is that I'll just say I've already tried it! Well, jeez, what do you want me to say?
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I don't get it.
Well, you know what? I don't get it either.
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But it saddens me for both of you. If she ever has one b/c of your efforts, she'll thank you, that's for sure.
