At least then the things I enjoyed doing there, or learned to,
would not have felt like "proof" we had to stay there forever. I am affected by weather and light so I probably would not have ever fully committed to it, but still...
I could have enjoyed it without pressure and he could admit things like, "it gets cold here in the winter" (well, once he said it was "Brisk"...)
For whatever reason, for the first time in our m, h was truly & lastingly, a jerk.
And It began about a month after landing there.
Jack3, I saw it happen to a few others and no place other than Alaska seems to do this to certain people, (mostly men).
So....WTH?
In private, when h isn't around, I tell stories of fun times there...don't tell.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016