you are getting good advice and I can tell you are getting your strength levels up too.
Despite my previously posted replies about what to do with marital revisions
if it's a bold faced PROVABLE lie, and it matters, you can say "w, NOW your rationalizations have gone beyond the pale b/c THAT statement is simply not true, and I can prove it."
THEN DROP IT and leave the area.
Let HER follow you with her "evidence" if she has it and
(apologize profusely if you are mistaken - so be damn sure you are not wrong)
you can listen and try hard to see if the other "sorry you feel that way" statements...apply.
Does that make sense?
I mean, At least you won't feel like you are participating in the hallucination.
keep on keeping on Shock you ARE getting to the other side, I promise.
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