Well besides that great turnaround I believe I'm done!!!
I called the kids yesterday around 5.30 they were great and talking to me, I then said I call them later, my daughter replied don't??,we are going to *****, a female friend of my wife's, I said you all going, thought they were just visiting, but no she is watching them while wife is going out!!!!, she has no one else!!!
I went crazy, told my wife that I was coming for them, that she didn't cate anymore, etc, crazy stuff
She then said it was all my fault, and mentioned om, again I went crazy!!! Lost it!! Told her all about him, he was a player, a heavy drinker, drugs, women, everything I had heard!!
She actually didn't seem that surprised and kept asking me who told me etc, o would not tell I was sworn to secrecy about that, and will not betray a friend!!
It got heated!! I told her I was through, I don't want her back? And told her to get on with it Said I'd been cheated on, and lied to, that I was made to feel the split was all about me, and I take ownership of my failings, but she had it all planed out She agreed that she was "talking" to him, but said we split because of me!!!
She told me that she loved me more than anything in world but I had hurt her too many times, and that's why we split
I just said it was over, I was done, get on with it
I text her latter that we should try and get on for the kids sake, no answer, I don't care!
I don't want her, she is a liar and a cheat She has used our kids as pawns in this and hurt them
I'm not going dark, I'm going midnight!!! I will not speak to her, why it's all lies She has lost the support of her family, she has been shown to be a liar, so she can deal with the concequences