thanks so much romb. It's a hard sitch. People just don't always take into account that we are actual families -- even without the legalities. I've had my S since he was 12 hours old, exactly like my W --- and as i've said, i'm the primary caregiver...

She is quick to quote the law when it applies to something that benefits her --- know what i mean??? confused

Hearing that you are thinking about me really does mean alot. I'm thinking of you as well, and following your sitch too. Thank you, truly from my heart.


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed