I would discuss it with h about filing in person but i dont think he can take anymore stress now. h is a real mommas boy and is taking his mothers illness very hard. when he was here he said mother signed something saying she didnt want anymore treatment done that if it was her time she wanted to go. when h told me this he almost broke down it was very sad time. when my h first got to my house and came in my first feeling was like he had never left, i dont know what i was thinking but i wanted to give him a hug like nothing ever happened. i told my mother and she said i should have gone with the feeling but i dont want to look to ,desperate and needy if hes in love with ow. when we were having conversation our son stayed close by on step and watched us and listened, i didnt know he was there cuz the wall was in the way.
