Well, it's official...My W, the OM and his mother are now one big happy household. He arrived yesterday.
SS24 stopped by my house for a visit last night - he's in town for the weekend. W never told him she moved, never told him about her living arrangements...he found out through his father or through comments his younger brother made about "Uncle R****" and "Aunt D****" coming to live with them.
SS24 is furious and disgusted with her, and wants nothing to do with her. He told me she made some comments about the OM during a lunch she and SS24 had back in January...2 months before any of this came to light with me. So she's been planning this all year.
I remember the morning of March 7 - D-Day - she pulled me to her, kissed me hard and said, "I love you so much." 5 hours later, after texting all morning with the OM, she told me she didn't love me, never really loved me and was in love with the OM.
I've spent the last 6 months watching my marriage gasp its last breaths. I tried to keep it alive; some things worked, but most did not. In the end, I don't think I ever really had a chance; her mind was made up long ago. The OM was an excuse for a way out.
Her crazy life can no longer concern me. I need to close that door and walk away.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
