Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
I have said "yes" when I didnt' really feel like it out of love for h, or other reasons I can't think of just now.

But I ALWAYS am glad afterwards...without fail. I often tell myself

"geez, why am I not making more time for this??"


Well, that's you! And I wish my wife was like you! But I think my wife and Captain's are not like you, unfortunately.

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So maybe you really want to be wanted (totally understandable)

but if she agrees "just" to please you and then enjoys it

even just a little, how is that bad?


Who said that was the case?