It's not that I can't forgive, it's just that I don't think I could forgive knowing that she told me up front and then went ahead to have a fling anyway - it's not just disrepectful, it's downright cruel to me AND the kids. It shows a lack of morality and character and frankly I don't want to be with someone that has the capacity to do that to someone they supposedly love and who puts themselves so far ahead of the kids.
