Hey Faith, thanks for the note. The truth is I WILL walk away from the house if she gets physical. So you don't think she should know up front that her actions are going to cost the kids $200K in inheritance? Just not sure what the right move is as I think in her fantasy world, she thinks she will go have an affair while I sit here, living in the same house and just waiting for her to have her fun (that's the vibe I get). So at least by telling her the consequences up front, she will be making a conscious decision to flush our kids' future education fund by moving to the next step.
