faith you always have great input!! I check out your posts regularly.

I miss the togetherness and security of the family unit. It is so special and it's really hard to let that go from Michael

Yes, that is such a hard thing. But I've been coming to realize that what we thought was security was really an illusion, and was/is very fragile. I loved the illusion of happily ever after and grandchildren on the porch, but like Faith said....read her post again and again.

You are becoming the better man. Keep it up.


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed