Yes, it is definitely not a reflection of you or YOUR choices. People are going to do what they are going to do. Like they have told me -- sit back with popcorn and let it happen while making things best for you and your child.

It's NOT something for you to own in any way shape or form.

Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed