I would say your W is stilll just leaning D right now. Not adamant, not h3ll bent, just still leaning - although it may be a bit more.
Originally Posted By: LearningPatience
She says she is not interested in any physical R with me, which really hurts a lot.
Yeah, I can understand that. I heard it before and I've heard it at MC. However, she is still not in a good place right now, so I don't think you can take this completely at face value.
Originally Posted By: LearningPatience
I just think it's so cosmically stupid that W and I got to this place. And I know stupid isn't the word, but I'll use it to describe the fact that W has seen my changes, that I've reverted to the man she first fell in love with, that we had a great history until recently, that she's seeing her own IC and MC, and yet doesn't, or can't, work on the M.
It good that she sees your changes. However, has she done anything for herself to revert back to the woman you first fell in love with? Would you take her back with open arms as she is right now?
No 2x4s from me on the email. Yeah, it may be considered to be pursuing, but she responded positively to it. So - do what works!
