more later but saw the boss's comments and had to make one myself...you are lucky to have her in your corner.
And you have to stop ALL R talks...Make NO mention of OW again. That only pushes them together (bad idea Mary...really). You are challenging her choices AGAIN and
so she's defending those choices AGAIN...cementing them more & more...
you saw what I wrote to you (or someone around here...) the 3 answers to their
extensive marital history revisions.
H once told me he thought I'd "be in the US Senate by now", and that I "have underachieved..." to him. Nice...
If you can't find the replies i posted somewhere, I'll repost but for now-
Do not engage in ANY discussion slike that. All you have to address are financial matters and s4 (which she has NOT thought out well I'd bet)
engaging and arguing is a no win sitch for YOU.
Tell her if she makes outlandish comments you feel demand an answer but you aren't sure what...or IF....
then say though you are "sure there's a perfect response to her comment, it escapes you right now", so....AND LEAVE the area.
Plus, and this is CRUCIAL---
your focus needs to STOP being on the nutjob alien you're married to, &
INSTEAD put your energy
onto your son and yourself and GAL....
So, tell us one thing that you have planned for this week that is all about YOU??
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
