Regretful and not sure how to proceed

[LearningPatience]

Drop it.

That's actually the best chance of saving your R.

As a fixer, I understand how hard it is to not try to help someone from making a mistake, but we have to let them fall, skin their knees (or worse).

It's best to imagine and treat your W like she is insane (because the WAS fog makes it partly true).