Yes, helping around the house, going out to events with her, going to restaurants, dancing, back massage, vacations together, hiking, compliments, planning an evening, going to a movie. And she enjoys it when I do these things... and I don't mind because I enjoy them too.

Not what I would consider direct turn-ons, of course. But sure, those are things many women say would put them in the mood.

But none of this results in any expression of desire for sex on her part.