Heh, it's an 'inspirational quote' from Animal House. "Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? Noooooo!"
All in all I know I am doing well. It's just a little hard sometimes when reality comes invading my little fantasy life. I think we all need to have an occasional down time to remember, reflect and recenter ourselves.
I still need to find the balance between engaging W and letting her chase after me. One thing our MC asked us is what we expect from friends. One of the things I told W is that if she wanted to be friends, we'd *both* have to reach out to the other; she agreed.
I think the $64,000 question is if I could 'settle' for just being friends with W. Likewise, her with me. Not sure either of us can answer that now.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011